Posted by frida on March 12, 2007, at 17:59:43
In reply to Re: flashbacks,how to share in T? *might trigger*, posted by Daisym on March 12, 2007, at 1:35:29
Dear Daisy,
Your post was very moving to me. Thank you...
What you shared about being upset with him, sometimes it happens to me, not that I feel so upset, but as if I had lost her and she had left me in the middle of it...It makes me want to tell her, how can you not see what's going on??
The problem is that I already have trouble talking and I sit there , and i've experienced a flashback (lately it happens) and I can't say anything, she is talking about something and I feel soooo far away from it all and I just wish she could see it, but then I even smile and I am able to talk about work or things like that when I am struggling so much. I've learnt to hide so well that now it's difficult...
But you are so right in saying that i'd be honoring the bond we share if I could tell her the hardest stuff and share with her. She tells me that's what she wants most. She really wants me to trust her and open my heart and stop carrying secrets.Thank you for your post..
be safe,
Frida
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