Posted by frida on March 12, 2007, at 18:05:06
In reply to Re: flashbacks,how to share in T? *might trigger*, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 12, 2007, at 13:57:19
Thank you Iwillsurvive for sharing with me.
It means a lot, it really does, and helps me to try to gather the courage to tell.
I sometimes look at her but I tend to smile or try to stay in control and when it is happening, sometimes she doesn't realize :-( She thinks I'm following what she's saying, sometimes she asks me something or tells me why I'm looking at her so scared, or asks me a question and I just can't say much..It's as though I were so far away or so lost I can't come out.One time she noticed too and it does help to hear her and know she knows...but lately I've experienced flashbacks there and they paralyze me and I just wish she could realize and say something.
You are so right that it's so hard to tell. I keep telling myself, "come on, say a phrase, at least one word, at least say stop...or please.." or something to give her a sign of what's happening but I can't make myself say anything..though I will try next time it happens.
Thank you for your understanding,
be safe,
Frida
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