Posted by gazo on March 20, 2007, at 23:26:05
In reply to Re: Widget, how goes it?, posted by widget on March 19, 2007, at 10:50:48
Oh boy, do I get what you are saying. I hope I can be direct without offending or upsetting you. You can tell me to shag off and i'd be cool with that :o)
I honestly think that after all the hard work you owe it to yourself to keep going, even if for a bit longer. I honestly think you might be on the verge of a break through. I think it is very important you continue and discuss with him how devastated you are at not being THE special client.
he obviously cares about you and i imagine you are special in many ways.
The thing is, it's that child with unmet needs who is upset and angry inside of you. The child who does not want to share the pdoc's attention with anyone, or least be more special. I hope that doesn't sound harsh, it's not meant to.
but just as a child learns to share so can your inner child. It won't continue to be painful if you deal with it.
i know this might sound like BS coming from the gal madly obssessed with her T, but it's easier from the outside.
be gentle with yourself, soothe that child in you.
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