Posted by gazo on March 23, 2007, at 9:19:04
In reply to Re: a newbie in love *possible trigger phrase*, posted by JoniS on March 22, 2007, at 23:28:38
> I was thinking something more like "... I want to tell you that I have very intense feelings for you and I'd like to get them out in the open..."
oh, lol! well that would be infinitely more appropriate than my version! Of course, i NEVER would have said to him what I said here.
>that way you can go as deep as you're ready to. but don't hold on to them all. I did and then I held a lot of anger and regret when I wasn't more honest after a fairly abrupt termination.
is it ok if I ask about the termination? it's ok if you don't want to answer... i feel like i am losing a limb. i think it's the reason these feelings have gotten so intense. i would never write on here what goes through my head.. it's embarrassing.
>think it through, but don't waste an opportunity for personal growth - that's what therapy is all about, right?
yes, it is. It's hard to remember that and not be caught up in the games our minds play.
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