Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on June 27, 2007, at 18:54:59
In reply to Re: Need? Anyone???, posted by sunnydays on June 27, 2007, at 15:16:21
I feel so little. I don't even acknowledge to needing a T. Every once in a while I'll be brave enough to ask whether I really should be seeing her/him 2x a week. Even though I know the answer.
If a T asked me what I NEED (I dunno). If a T asked me what I needed from him/her, or from a session. I would totally freak out. I don't want to ask. I'd prefer to talk about Maslow's heirarchy than about my own stuff. I pretend like that need stuff doesn't apply to me. Hard for me to admit that I even need my husband. Sure, he does stuff for me, and loves me with very few conditions, and is a great guy, but wouldn't I do just as well on my own. And the tiny part of me says..."probably not".
I asked (joking) my newT, the quieT about whether people actually lay down on the couch. after a lot of rambling about psychoanalysis, a word caught my ear. The face to face interaction somethingerother "holding relationship" I don't want to be held. physically, emotionally or otherwise. Get Away. but don't I?
I might have to quit therapy if T ever asked me what I needed. that bad.
in case you were wondering, I satisfied my itch for oreos and skim milk. just thought I'd broadcast that again.
-Ll
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