Posted by DAisym on July 18, 2007, at 15:51:19
In reply to Re: ugggh..... T stuff » LadyBug, posted by sunnydays on July 18, 2007, at 14:52:18
I think you need to walk yourself back in a different way. Ask yourself:
Do you think your therapist can take care of himself? If so, do you really think he'd do something that he regretted and not bring it up? If he needed to charge you more, I bet he would.Do you think he goes soft on you because he thinks you can't take it? I'm willing to be that he would challenge your thinking here and ask if he has done something to make you think he wants out of this relationship.
Sometimes a joke is just a joke, and it sounds like a light, warm remark, "getting a bargain." :) I worry all the time about all my therapist's remarks. I do, so I can understand the fears you are expressing. I make huge mountains out of mole hills. But around things like fees, I trust that he will do what he needs to. My job is to show up, be honest and pay him what he charges me.
I wish it wasn't so hard for you (and me) to just believe them when they say, "I won't leave."
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