Posted by DAisym on July 18, 2007, at 19:05:19
In reply to Re: ugggh..... T stuff » DAisym, posted by sunnydays on July 18, 2007, at 17:50:58
I'm glad I could help and I'm so glad he called back and said all the right things.
You know what though? Even if he did get mad at you, that doesn't mean he is mad forever. And he won't hurt you with his anger. I'm still terrified when my therapist seems mad or gets annoyed with me (which he admits) but he tells me: "these are normal feelings within relationships. We will work it out. We always have and hopefully you will eventually trust our track record." Scary - but somehow, for me, easier to believe than "never" because I know that lately I've been pushing him, trying to MAKE him mad at me. So if I succeed, I'm glad he won't leave in his anger.
Just a thought (or two.) :)
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