Posted by annierose on September 10, 2007, at 18:23:22
In reply to Re: Well, i sucked it up well enough I guess. » seldomseen, posted by Dinah on September 10, 2007, at 17:47:29
I agree with Dinah - but Seldomseen - don't think that telling your t how you felt by his reaction must be confrontational. I think it is important at some point to let him know how you felt when he spoke to you the way he did.
Maybe you could say (in a gentle voice) something like, "I was so hurt when you told me to 'suck it up'." You are conveying your feelings simply. And then the hard part (at least for me), letting the sentence linger until he responds.
I am glad that you felt better after today's session.
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