Posted by Sigismund on May 30, 2008, at 18:23:48
In reply to T is being seductive. Why?, posted by backseatdriver on May 30, 2008, at 16:28:24
>He said I was "hot," he said furthermore that I "liked being hot," etc.
Goodness me. That sounds completely inappropriate.
>Thing is, I'm totally attracted to him. After I reported a dream to this effect, he told me, "We aren't going to sleep together." I think he wanted to reassure me.
I don't much like that either, though I'm less sure why.
>I've sort of tried to move on, particularly by leaving my feelings about HIM out of the sessions. Yet, he keeps bringing me back to these feelings. It's like he's trying to get me to *give*, to *yield*, to admit how I feel. I would do it, except that I don't understand how it benefits me to be humiliated
Me neither. Maybe you could ask him?
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