Posted by Lucie Lu on May 31, 2008, at 17:31:12
In reply to Re: T is being seductive. Why?, posted by star008 on May 30, 2008, at 22:59:47
I completely agree with the other posters that any T saying such things to you is highly inappropriate to start with and acting out any such feelings within therapy is both wrong and very destructive. I really hope that is not where he is coming from. I do wonder whether he could be coming at things from a different angle, a more therapeutic one. For instance, it sounds from what you said that you were pretty dissociated when you were trying to tell him about painful past experiences. And that you were frustrated by that. Perhaps he felt, for whatever reason, that taking that line of questioning might help break through the dissociation barrier and help you access things more freely? Obviously no one else can really know, only you were there and you know him. I guess I'm just being hopeful that there was some positive purpose here, otherwise I think you may need to think about another T and if this one has been otherwise helpful to you that would be very sad. I hope it works out... -LL
poster:Lucie Lu
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