Posted by muffled on June 4, 2008, at 0:40:16
In reply to Re: ddnos switched in front of T bad one, embarras » rskontos, posted by star008 on June 3, 2008, at 23:37:54
hey star, sorry you feeling bad.
i'm sure your t will be fine.
I am having hard time w/transition of T'S.Hard to lose oldT who I had trust and attach.
But she keep not 'getting' DD stuff. I wanto beleive she does and I be fooling myself, cuz she would say something that from a Dd POV was kinda dumb, and I realize she DON'T get it. OldT I still like cuz she was good, but she could not do DD stuff.
I have only second appt so far w/DD T. She not there next week so she was pretty keeping it toned down today.
Its just so cool when she just 'gets' stuff. Blows me away. She has much experience and has written stuff and done seminars and stuff.
She even cottoned on to the fact that I would prefer her to enter the room first w/o me asking. She understood that it would be hard that she has a week off when we just starting. She know lots bout SI.
W/oldT I was always trying to explain stuff to HER, bout DD. But w/new T I can talk bout whats actually happening, cuz she ALREADY know bout DD.She asks good questions.
So I feel very fortunate to have found her.
But who knows, its only 2 sessions, mebbe she will be useless.
I just am REALLY liking that she 'gets' stuff. MANNOMAN that is amazing. Little things, can't remember now, but she gets it.
Star, I dunno, if your T kinda understands, mebbe it will be ok.
I know I get SO depressed when talking bout my 'others' in T. I fall in a black hole. I say to T today, I just want it to go away, is there a way I can just make it go away????? She said yes, but it takes time.
Mebbe you could look around and find w/help of your T and see if there IS a DD T around thats good and start with a consult like I did? Thats a safer way of trying it out.
damn, it just feels so good, yet frightening to be understood.
I try and keep you posted.
I not here so much.
I REALLY REALLY tired and I go now.
Star I really do wish you the best.
Take care,
M
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