Posted by fleeting flutterby on July 28, 2008, at 16:09:23
In reply to The silences., posted by Cal on July 28, 2008, at 12:09:57
> Hi,I've not posted before. I've been in therapy for 3yrs and still struggle with the "silences". To me they feel very oppressive and I feel abandoned and angry. I wonder what others feel about "Silences" in therapy?<<
hmmmmmm... seems I'm in the minority on this..... being from a huge family and then after older siblings grew and left home-- mother had daycare with 15+ kids in our house...... needless to say I LOVE the silence(think all my growing years I was in sensory overload!)..... silence is relaxing and helps me to focus better.... also it feels strange, in a nice way, that " I " am the focus. what a nice feeling..... I bask in the silence....
flutterby- mandy
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