Posted by sassyfrancesca on August 1, 2008, at 15:05:36
In reply to four weeks off - abandonment *trigger*, posted by backseatdriver on August 1, 2008, at 12:26:33
Hmmmm...I am so sorry you are hurting. My guess is that he simply was trying to find out if you were relating to the first and most painful abandonment in your life.
Sounds like he was trying to be kind?
Hugs, Sassy
All my t has ever said when going on vacation is did I feel abandoned? Not really; I didn't like it AND I missed him....but I think abandoned was too strong a word.
I never knew my father (met him when I was 30); did you ever see your mother again?
Can you call or e-mail him?
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