Posted by rskontos on September 19, 2008, at 17:16:54
In reply to What do you tell your DH?, posted by JayJ on September 19, 2008, at 16:38:47
Zip. Nada. Noneyabeezwax. Not a thing.
Actually my T wanted to meet with my DH. The meeting was scheduled and I dissociated, lost time and during that episode I called and cancelled the session. I did not remember doing this when I regained my sense of self so hubby went and Dr. S said well your wife called and cancelled it. I had no recollection of doing so. I know before this zone out as I call them I was very upset. That is all I remember. And my T had someone else scheduled. and we have never rescheduled.
Of course my T said he was dumb not to have thought about me dissociating and doing this since I was really nervous about them meeting. So he said we won't meet until you are ready. And so that hasn't not happened. I am not sure I want it too.
My h doesn't ask what happens. I think he is relieved someone else deals with it all. truthfully.
Even now and then he will say are you well yet. I blow up usually. So he doesn't ask that much anymore.
Sometimes I will relate some of it too him but not often. Like maybe once or twice in the almost 10 months with this t.
Of course I was saying one day how I did not trust T yet. My DH asked me if I trusted him and I did not answer and he said well that is my answer I guess. So now I think he is afraid to ask too much.
rsk
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