Posted by Marie1 on July 19, 2001, at 8:22:29
In reply to Love only in fairy tales?, posted by Patches on July 18, 2001, at 21:59:56
Patches,
I wish I had some answers for you. I don't, but at least I can commiserate. I've been married for 19 years and am seeing my marriage dissolve around me. At least that's how I see it. We don't connect anymore, not like we did. I was struck by the fact that you are blaming yourself for your husband's lack of support or caring. Interesting, because I do that too. The old "it must be me" syndrome. Maybe that's not true, though. Maybe you've outgrown him. I don't know. Just don't feel so all alone, I think there are plenty of us wearing your mocassins.Marie
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