Posted by Dubya on July 25, 2001, at 23:21:20
In reply to Re: Love only in fairy tales? » Patches, posted by kid_A on July 18, 2001, at 22:36:40
I mean again like I said I have never had a girlfriend (probably no clue how to get one) thus never been married... But, when I say it's the nice people who often feel this way because, they are wanting to please, to put in more than they expect to get out of whatever... but, when they put in so much effort and feel ignored, that's probably what hurts the most? My guess would be that the two of you have been together for too long... in the sense that, either one of you or both of you should add some inspiration and try to keep the excitement going. The fun's died down but, I don't think it's for good... I just hope he's the one who jumpstarts the relationship, not you b/c you have enough on your shoulders. hmm perhaps start with a vacation to like the Bahamas or Florida or wherever else seems like a fantasy place to you. Just the two of you have to go, that way (please forgive my choice of words) both of you can feel young again and perhaps revisit those fond memories that once brought the two of you together. I mean even going to the movies together like watching AMERICAN SWEETHEARTS, etc or going out to dinner but do leave the kids behind. By the way, if you are feeling the way you've described, I think he's forgotten about the real YOU and is caught up in too many other things so, I'm hoping for your sake that he will change! Good luck!
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