Posted by Dinah on May 5, 2013, at 20:21:45
In reply to Re: Not really a distortion Phillipa » 2stressed, posted by Dinah on May 5, 2013, at 20:18:28
Of course it's just as possible, Phillipa, that the emotional cost to you isn't worth the potential emotional benefits of maintaining the relationship. In which case you can detach from it entirely.
I was going on the assumption that it would be worth the trouble and cost of trying to repair the relationship. That isn't necessarily true, and that's a decision that is entirely yours to make.
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