Posted by ruby on July 7, 2003, at 19:50:00
In reply to Re: seeing my t in his apt. » ruby, posted by judy1 on July 7, 2003, at 15:55:59
i hear what you are saying judy and... i don't think it is as black and white as you suggest.
he has been incredibly professional in all other matters--laughs with me when i talk about how i feel "special" because of our arrangements and uses it all in helping me.
and i know i only have to say the word about moving into his office and it would be a done deal--and something we'd continue to discuss.
i understand your concerns, i have them myself, and i have deep respect for this man--and i'm not about to go elsewhere...especially since 1) i've just recently become attached to him and 2) i'm in the middle of a deep depression--not a good time to make a move and 3) if i stopped seeing him, it is highly unlikely i would look for someone else. i've had too many bad t experiences in the past--in fact, this is my first good experience...
so even with the issues i've raised, i guess i've realized, in this exchange, how important it is that i stay working with him and pursue these areas of difficulty.
thanks so much for your kind,concerned and thoughtful response--it surely has helped me think through these matters.
ruby
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