Posted by lucy stone on September 11, 2004, at 6:52:08
In reply to How to respond to this?, posted by Klokka on September 10, 2004, at 21:44:17
I'm annoying too, and I can be annoying and worse than annoying to me T. I'm not annoying in the same ways with him that I am with others, though. In my analysis I have found that I use some of my annoying behaviors as a defense to keep other people away from me. Lately I have been describing the way I behave in situations where I am anxious and trying to keep people away. We talk about it and he suggests ways that I could have handled the situation to get what I want (keeping people away) without being as annoying. I know he hopes to get to the place where I don't want to keep people away! Instead of acting in the way that you see as annoying in your Ts office, could you describe a sitiuation where you were acting in that way? Maybe he could see what you mean and help you with it. BTW, I know I am annoying even here, and it has annoyed at least one poster :(
poster:lucy stone
thread:389435
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