Posted by Rigby on October 25, 2004, at 10:46:25
In reply to Re: Update » Rigby, posted by Bent on October 24, 2004, at 20:01:41
Hi Bent. Yeah, I was thinking about the over reacting comment and it feels pretty darn invalidating. She's done this before--messed up and not taken responsibility. I had more feelings for her then, I was in a state of transference so felt less confident about what was real. Now I won't back down. I want her to take on what's hers. I'm not sure I would go into therapy again. This is an opportunity now for me to think, specifically, of why I was in therapy the past two years. Maybe I need a break or something. Lots to mull. Anyway, thanks for your post--much appreciated.
> I think you handled it well. Sounds like you directly conveyed your feelings and that's great. It bothers me that she would repeatedly say you were over-reacting. I think you have to go with your gut feeling. And maybe your feelings will change in a week or two, but if you dont feel that you can trust her maybe you can see someone else? Easier said than done, I know. Trust is important. These are tough decisions. Good luck.
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