Posted by fallsfall on November 2, 2004, at 22:15:29
In reply to What I want, What she wants, posted by Daisym on November 2, 2004, at 20:20:32
>But he said he wanted to be clear with me that he didn't want me to share it with anyone yet
*** What did he mean by this?
I'm just so blown away that what she wants (to be saved) is so different from what I want (to learn how to cope). I beginning to wonder if we will ever get on the same page. And I think my therapist is showing favoritism. He talks so soft and nice to her!! Can you have sibling rivalry with yourself? *sigh*
*** He would be soft and nice to you, too if you would allow yourself to need him...
I think that both of you will need to move towards the center. The solution will be a compromise. Neither you nor little daisy are going to convince the other to abandon her position and take up the opposite position.
You are doing really well, Daisy. This is very hard.
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