Posted by Aphrodite on November 3, 2004, at 13:58:33
In reply to What I want, What she wants, posted by Daisym on November 2, 2004, at 20:20:32
Is it at all possible that the adult part of you *does* want to be saved too, but thinks the proper thing is just to learn to cope? When it comes to this issue, *all* the parts of me want saving. It's just not practical, though. If you are willing to share, (email if better, or not at all) what were the suggestions for the adult part of you that were not working? I just know that when the child hurts, adult solutions don't make sense.
This is such a terribly painful issues for survivors of csa; it robs our rightful joy out of sexuality. I'm so sorry you're struggling, and I am glad little Daisy expressed her desire to be rescued. She should have been rescued when she was little. Maybe she can get some soothing from your T and from adult Daisy, too.
Best of luck to you. Hugs.
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