Posted by Shortelise on February 6, 2005, at 12:22:50
In reply to Re: My therapist is in love with me!, posted by badhaircut on February 6, 2005, at 11:42:04
Badhaircut has given you very good advice, and I hope you will follow it.
Were my T to suddenly make it obvious that he's interested in me, it would undermine everything we've done together, I would lose all respect for him, and I would doubt everything he'd ever said to me. It would destroy so much. I would ask him to - oh, I can't think of the term at the moment, but it's when one therapist talks to another about a patient. I would ask him to do that, and to refer me to someone new.
Blossom, this is so inappropriate on his part. You could do yourself so much harm if you were to participate. Could you talk with him, tell him how you are interpreting his signals, ask him if you are correct, and try to talk it through? Would that be possible?
ShortE
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