Posted by one woman cine on December 9, 2005, at 10:13:13
In reply to Re: I need positive therapy vibes » orchid, posted by Dinah on December 9, 2005, at 8:15:48
I am hoping everyhting works out for the best.
It reminds me of a situation I had ( & I don't know if you can relate), when I couldn't see my previous T and the relationship was severed. At that time, I felt like I couldn't, under any circumstances - no way, no how - go on living - or if I did - my life was over. The feeling was so intense and so painful. I was never going into therapy again, that's it, no more I'm done!
It took time to get to where I am now. & while I truly hope if you can work out things with your T; if you can't - I really believe you will go on & find someone else & you will thrive, b/c ultimately that's what it sounds like you've been fighting so hard for. & maybe this is impertinent of me to ask, & I apologize profusely if it is - but I realize I didn't want to end things with my T b/c I would have to grieve, not only for her, but for everything & everyone I ever lost in my life. I was defending against that. I'm just wondering, do think you are doing that a little. Or I may be totally off base.
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