Posted by LadyBug on January 4, 2006, at 15:05:18
In reply to He called this morning while I was sleeping, posted by happyflower on January 4, 2006, at 10:26:23
HF
I know just how you feel and I know what I'd be thinking...........to he** with him!! He hurt me and I won't let him hurt me any more!! If you go back, will it hurt you more??? If you don't go back, can you live with the ubrupt ending the rest of your life???? Is therapy just a bunch of crap to get your heart professionally broken??? I would say yes, most of the time. I'm too attached to my T. to leave. I'd rather deal with the hurt than to not see her anymore. It's a catch 22!! You can't seem to win!! It hurts either way.
Our T.s become so important to us so when they do something that hurts, the hurt magnifies many times!
I'm so sorry for your pain. Move on, get over it, or go back and try to work it out. Those are your options. I can't tell you what to do, either optionwould hurt like he** to me!!!
Keep us posted and best wishes with your decision.
LadyBug
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