Posted by JoniS on September 6, 2007, at 22:57:12
In reply to Something about the day after therapy...., posted by JoniS on September 6, 2007, at 12:14:19
He called me about 5 minutes after he read the email. When my phone was ringing I realized thats what he would do. He was so thoughtful. He managed to show me that he cares, without telling me, or addressing my statement that I wish I meant more to him than I do. He just asked me what was wrong and reassured me that he has time to talk and even says he's glad I called. I was so emotional I cried quite a bit. He said that he understands that I feel passion and happiness, acceptance when I'm in t and so it's understandable that I would want that again. That really made me cry and when he asked me why I said because I don't want to feel that only 1 hour every week or 2. Then he took a long time to say that he believed I could have that. The problem is that in my marriage I feel none of that, especially since DH's affair 4 years ago. Dont trust him.
I am thankful for my T, but I really wish I didn't feel so deeply for him.
I agree with you, (I think - RealMe) that I wouldn't want my T to say I was more special than his spouse. Then my T wouldn't be so attractive. It's his character and his integrity that make me love him so much.
I wish I had the whole conversation recorded. He was very sensitive, thoughtful and caring.
This is hard.
Thanks for your posts everyone.
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