Posted by Dory on September 12, 2007, at 19:52:16
In reply to cant stop crying today, posted by wishingstar on September 12, 2007, at 12:26:50
i'm so sorry honey... and i am also sorry i haven't been in touch with you much lately. i've been a bad friend all around to everyone i know, not just you. i am sorry you are hurting.
i don't know what to say... i'm not sure which things you have shared here.. so i'll keep this limited.
wishy... you could try doing some basic things that you already know how to do... make a list of the real, concrete evidence of pro's and con's about how you feel... concrete meaning John said "i hate you" vs you thinking he hates you or interpreting that he hates you. He won't do things you want, or need. If you have made your needs clear then that is about him honey, not you. If it were indeed true that you were unlovable, then i would still question *his* motives... i mean, why would he be with someone he saw as so unlovable? Of course, the actions of someone else is not concrete evidence of your worthiness of love either.
you know all these things...bbut your heart doesn't. i'm so sorry. i wish i could make you see yourself as i do... a beautiful and strong woman who is more than deserving of love and happiness.
poster:Dory
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