Posted by Happyflower on June 12, 2008, at 7:26:27
In reply to Re: Called my old T today and left a message, posted by sassyfrancesca on June 11, 2008, at 13:24:32
> I think it is an excellent idea. It will continue to eat at you, unless you resolve it.
>I think that is true, it is eating at me and I feel I need to do something. I have talked about it with my T till I was blue in the face, did EMDR, and it still hurts what happened. So I just am going to take the bull by the horns. lol I will either feel better or end up hating him so much for being a jerk, in the end I will feel better because who cares about a dumb jerk?
> As for your new t talking to your new t...if that is what you said? That would be unethical and unprofessional; new T would have to have written permission.
I know this is how it is in theory, but I know many are guilty of this especially if they know each other. I am only guess about my T, but I have a feeling about it. They do meet with other T's who do EMDR once a month at my current T's place. But then again it could be my imagination, and we all know how crazy that is at times. lol
> Whatever the outcome, you can at least know you tried to "fix" what happened, put it to rest (I HATE that term "closure").......
It is funny you say that about "closure", because my old T says the same exact thing. lol Thanks Sassy Twin, hope all is going good with you. Are you taking any summer classes? I think it is great you are going back to school, I know it has done wonders for me.
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