Posted by muffled on June 16, 2008, at 0:16:02
In reply to Re: Not too happy with my therapist today, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2008, at 22:59:25
I'm reasonably solidish. If you want to lean my way. I don't think I'll fall over.
You got my email, and you can email anytime ok?
Right now, I think you are safe w/your T. maybe the dynamics have changed some, but for now, its OK. For now it IS safe, just feels scarey, but for now its OK. I do not think he will imminently depart.
As far as consult...I thot mebbe you guys could consult TOGETHER, both go. That way you are in the loop. And a good consulting T should be able to zero in on what to say/ask, and be able to sort out some of the less useful patterns you guys might have gotten into, and suggest some helpful things to change them...It could really throw some new zip into your therapy! Or not. I dunno, but I am sure a breath of fresh views will be bound to be useful. But the more I think on it, given the relationship you do have w/your T, it would be best for boyth of you to be there, and ideally for consult to possibly come to your T's office...
Abandonment is always a tough one.
The old vortex of need is hard.
Do you guys work on whats behind all these feelings? What is the root cause of it all? Do you have specific strategies to deal with them?
Its awfully uncomfortable for you I know.(to put it mildly...)
I am glad you are feeling OK to post on babble if it helps :-)
Do you have 'others', like me? Maybe they are clamouring to be heard?( I know your sensitive to this, so bmail/email if you wish).
I am thinking of you.
Thanks for your kind words to me.
Tee hee, so your T knows me....I'll have to drop in if I am ever out your way!LOL! :-)
M
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