Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2008, at 17:21:33
In reply to Transference, posted by Amanda29 on July 28, 2008, at 16:53:26
My advice is always honesty.
Sometimes cautious honesty.
He's been with you for three years, so he's likely not going to be horrified by what you tell him. Therapists usually don't terminate over feelings, just behaviors. You've been respectful of the boundaries he's established. He'll have that knowledge to use when evaluating what you tell him.
If for some reason he can't handle even the feelings, it might be best to know it sooner rather than later?
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