Posted by Looney Tunes on July 28, 2008, at 19:03:31
In reply to Re: Transference » Amanda29, posted by raisinb on July 28, 2008, at 18:45:13
I agree with the above. Yes, tell him. It is part of the process. Be honest, but don't be overwhelming. Give it time to work out.
I have never had that type of transferance. Mine has always been more parental issues, but it is still hard to talk about and sometimes hard to recognize what you want will never happen.
Years ago, I had a T who was fabulous. I had such parental tranferance with her that I literally begged and pleaded to be adopted. I offered to be a slave if I could move in with her. And a ton of other crazy things I said.
It's part of the process. Plus, he is probably aware already. Supposedly, T's can feel our transferance at times.
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