Posted by wittgensteinz on January 27, 2009, at 14:36:10
In reply to Re: I wish I hadn't cancelled my appointments )o: » sharon7, posted by Dinah on January 27, 2009, at 14:01:50
Sharon,
Welcome to babble btw. I have to agree with Dinah. Surely a dint to ones pride is nothing by comparison to the feeling of frustration at not seeing your T for several weeks? What's the harm in phoning and seeing whether there's a session free? No-one's going to say "ooh but you cancelled..." - people make plans and change them all the time for one reason or another - don't punish yourself all the more. It also seems like you have a lot to talk with your T about - could I dare ask whether there is something of avoidance/resistance underlying your behaviour of cancelling sessions? Why not challenge yourself - phone up, ask if you can still have your sessions and maybe even pluck up the confidence to be open about your habit of cancelling sessions when you're angry at her and why she made you angry?
Sorry if I seem too pushy but it's sad to see someone suffer unnecessarily.
Witti
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