Posted by sharon7 on January 28, 2009, at 19:40:40
In reply to Re: wish hadn't canxd my appt (THANKS ALL!) » sharon7, posted by seldomseen on January 28, 2009, at 16:40:32
Thanks a lot, Seldom. That's some really good advice and you're right. Therapy cost too much to be spending sessions hemming and hawwing (or staring at the ceiling and crying as ive been known to do.) I mean, i'm so afraid of any kind of rejection from her, but avoiding it is senseless really. If she doesn't think she's the right person to help me with my issues there's no point in dragging out the inevitable. But we did make a pact early on that if for whatever reason I did not want to work with her anymore, I promised I'd tell her and tell her "why" because she'd want to know the reason, and I said "well, you have to promise you'll tell me, too, if you don't want to work with me anymore." She said she would, and I know she would because she has never lied to me. I might not be able to count on her loving me, but i can count on her telling me the truth. Thanks for writing, Seldom.
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