Posted by Dinah on July 1, 2009, at 23:20:56
In reply to Re: Suddenly develop Dependent Personality Disorde, posted by Dinah on July 1, 2009, at 23:16:17
> hmmm... I do think there was a period where he encouraged me to ask the most outrageous things of him so he could say no, and I could get used to it.
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> But knowing me, I probably refused to do it. Or did it once with poor grace and a red face.Hey!!!
That wretch set it up so that either way it would be practice. If I said no, then he had asked and I had said no, and he took it in such a way as to demonstrate what accepting a no meant if you had good boundaries.
I wonder if he was that smart?....
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