Posted by TherapyGirl on July 3, 2009, at 18:35:22
In reply to Re: I think I'm done with T » TherapyGirl, posted by antigua3 on July 3, 2009, at 9:58:12
Exactly. She won't even be honest about it. She thinks she's doing all of this right. And what she's doing is setting me up over and over. She asked me last night how much contact I thought I needed after she retires and what kind of form it should take. I looked at her and said, "Why are you asking me that when you know I don't get to pick?" It just feels like she's toying with me. And, of course, I was right. She had already decided that we could have contact (a phone call or whatever) once/month. So WHY is she asking me things she's already decided??????
I get what you and Daisy are saying about a final session, but I just don't see it helping because of the space she's in. She's not my T anymore and she certainly isn't my mother.
Thanks so much for hanging in there with me, though. I know you know how difficult this is.
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