Posted by karen_kay on March 8, 2007, at 12:52:30
In reply to This is the tough stuff for me, posted by scratchpad on March 7, 2007, at 16:38:13
alrightie sexiepie, you asked for it then. you want honesty, i can give it to you.
kk just had a baby (ok, i didn't just pop that duckie out, it has been nine months, but i ate like a pig and i put on almost 100 pounds. seriously, i went to the hospital and weighed in at (gasp) 228 lbs!). my belly (which tended to be potbellie piggieish anyhow) looks kinda even moreso like one. but, i got one hellofabottom to make up for that belly. and my boobs far outweigh that. and i still have them beautiful brown eyes.
so, that's how i tend to look at things. i've put on some weight (and thank goodness it's coming off :) but, my butt and boobs are making up for it. and i still have all those other things that i used to have before the weight to make up for it.
so, perhaps you could find the things you do like about yourself and forget about those ones you don't like as much? that's what i tend to do. (and trust me, one day that pot belly will come into style, it jsut has to! i'm always going to have it, it's never going to go away. i cna't do a decent sit up to save my life. so, i'm holding out the hope that one day the pot belly will become fashionable and i'm just ahead of my time :)
(((((sexie pie)))))))))
accept yourself, flaws and all. that's what makes you unique and beautiful! if we all looked like george clooney (ok, bad example, the world would be a lovely place if we all looked like him), so if we all had blonde hair, blue eyes, size zero, we'd all look like kid's ex wife and he'd be one very sad man. we wouldn't want that, now would we?
have a lovely day, lovelie!
poster:karen_kay
thread:739018
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