Posted by snapper on May 23, 2005, at 4:26:39 [reposted on May 28, 2005, at 13:21:23 | original URL]
In reply to Both my parents died. I'm hopeless and can't feel., posted by soulnik on May 23, 2005, at 0:08:57
Soulnik, It is almost 4 am where I live and I am glad that I was still awake to read of your pain,loss and desperate feelings. I have no special or magical things in mind to offer you as a solution. I do know for a fact though that someone more qualified to respond to your post will soon come along. I am sorry for your situation and won't try to change anything you posted. Everything you wrote is valid and "It" is what "It" is. I am glad you reached out! That is a good sign and also validates the importance of the special place we all effectionately know as Psycho Babble. Again I don't feel I have the words to console or help soothe the pain you are going through at this time in your life.Even so, I just wanted to make sure that I could write something...anything...to let you know I read your post! Others will too, when more people get up and start reading your post, I can surely guarantee that others will reach out to you in deep heartfelt and meaning and emotional ways to if at a minimum , offer ways of what to do next...... I really wish I knew of a way to offer you solace. I will lay down this early morning and try to sleep and will think of you and many others as I offer up a Prayer to a God that You and I and many others feel like he has turned away from , shunned us, given us sick emotional,mental cases a shi*ty deal and lot in this life . I often pray to a God that most of the time I really wonder if he or her or it even exists at all. But I still pray. I hope you get or got some sleep this lonely night and morning.I will close in saying this: Even if you feel no one cares or you have no one to turn to, you have all of us he at 'Babble' and I know that may not even sound like anything of any significance at all but it is. I hope that wou can find the energy and desire to call on your dr. pdoc or anybody you have reached out to in times before. I sincerely hope that my response to your post is a beggining to helping you realize that ....even though we have never spoke before, that I CARE , Every body else here Definitely cares ...You are a human being that needs love , compassion, gentleness, and understanding just like any othe human. You are NOT alone!!! I will look forward to seeing your post and others when I wake up!
Good Night
Snapper
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