Posted by Fallen4myT on March 9, 2004, at 23:14:40
In reply to How do you feel about your T's boundaries?, posted by KindGirl on March 9, 2004, at 20:53:45
I like your post and am scared to say a lot on my T. But I do not KNOW what my T's boundaries are at all. Once I asked best as I could I said I didnt want to break any rules he looked at me and said "I have no rules" Now I am sure if I got on his couch naked and danced he would NOT like that..well he might like it but I dont think it would be OK with him. If I took a baseball bat and smashed all his stuff ditto...but can I hug him if say he is sick? I do not know....this bugs me cause it kind of inhibits me. But I CANNOT ask. He has told me call anytime, I have ALL his phone numbers and so on. So I guess its way cool you know all your T's stuff and all and I am jealous cause I could use a hug from someone who really cares and I cannot do it cause I am afraid it will not be OK. So I sit holding my heart out to him in my hand but he cannot see it because it is invisable :( A plus is (please nobody lecture me in proper T behaviour) he has blatently flirted with me and said stuff but NO moves and that is cool WITH ME.
Its good you know what is OK and not OK I never have and really am to shy to ask
poster:Fallen4myT
thread:322622
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