Posted by pegasus on March 11, 2004, at 11:22:14
In reply to How do you feel about your T's boundaries?, posted by KindGirl on March 9, 2004, at 20:53:45
One thing struck me as I was reading through these posts. And feel free to ignore me or yell at me if you think I'm making things up. But it seems as though it's the babblers who have Ts that have less firm boundaries that tend to talk about having intense romantic or erotic reactions to their Ts. Do you guys agree? Or am I totally out of line here?
In my own experience, it seems like the times that the boundaries are stretched a bit (going over time or discussing the Ts personal stuff) that I feel like I'm getting hooked (dependent/attached/needy) in a problematic way.
- p
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