Posted by tinydancer on March 12, 2004, at 2:01:51
In reply to Re: How do you feel about your T's boundaries?, posted by pegasus on March 11, 2004, at 11:22:14
Hey Pegasus, I would never yell at you and suggest you are making things up! Don't be afraid to share your point of view. I think its very interesting what you pointed out.
I feel that my T has very, very firm boundaries. He doesn't touch me or give me hugs. It goes further than that but that strikes me first in considering our relationship. But that hasn't stopped me from falling in love with him and having a lot of intense feelings for him.
But I also think it depends on what people want to describe as boundaries. For example, some might not see letting the time go over for sessions register as weak boundaries. My T readjusted our session time because it just wasn't enough, it was impossible to accomodate myself and issues with my alters.
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