Posted by daisym on September 15, 2004, at 21:22:48
In reply to Re: Just Need to Babble - sorry, long » daisym, posted by partlycloudy on September 15, 2004, at 19:29:48
Thanks, PC. It means a lot that you are "listening." I'm really lonely going through this process because who do you tell this stuff to? My best friend today listened for a little while about my husband's attitude and she pipped in with, "well, you make excuses for him because you are codependent. Maybe you need to work on THAT in therapy." I told my therapist. He told me, "no offense to her, but she should get stuffed. You need support, not criticism." I was glad he said that because I'm already beating my self up about what I'm willing to make excuses for.
More babbling, I know. I'm glad you are out there.
Daisy
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