Posted by mair on February 7, 2005, at 14:15:55
In reply to Re: i'm crazy., posted by lonelygal2 on February 7, 2005, at 12:03:37
LG - I know it would be wonderful for you if you could rely on previous Ts for support, but it obviously isn't going to happen in the way you want. And if you think about it, they are not located near you and probably feel that any help they could give is limited by the distance, maybe by the limitations of trying to communicate over the phone or by email, and by the amount of time that has passed since you were regularly seeing them. I'm sorry you got a response that sounded so "CYA" but that really is probably driven by the reality of your circumstances and theirs. I'm sure your ex-T feels some of the same helplessness that we all feel here when there's someone we want to be able to do so much more for.
You absolutely need to find new sources of support. You had one bad experience trying to come up with a new T. There are good ones out there - ones who are not going to be intimidated by your current level of distress. Please give finding one another shot.
Mair
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