Posted by orchid on December 8, 2005, at 1:36:27
In reply to Called my T, feel stupid now, posted by Voce on December 8, 2005, at 0:57:50
I think it is kind of ok to try to mentally close the relationship with your first T with another T who is available to you. I think I also did that with my second T, and even she said so herself, and she was ok with it. She said she was ok with me using her to close down mentally with my first T. And it really helped me do it also, since my termination with my first T ended up being very wishy-washy and abrupt.
IT is the same thing you are trying to do, and it isn't wrong. I hope that her continuing to support you will help you close down more with your first T.
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