Posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 10:09:10
In reply to Not stupid » Voce, posted by Tamar on December 8, 2005, at 6:50:07
You know I did the exact same thing a few weeks ago. I just wanted to connect with him, I was struggling with missing him so much since we started to space our session a month a part. I never called him before just to connect. I was worried about him too since I didn't see him at the gym. But instead of getting him, I got his machine, and left a pretty dumb sounding message on it to call me back. I even said, you don't HAVE to call me back, but I would like you to. I said I just wanted to touch base. I sounded like such an idiot, I even said that too on the machine.
But he called me back and was very nice and it seemed like he understood that I just wanted to connect with him. Then he asked me if I felt better since hearing his voice, I said yes as always. Then I said "it's pretty pathadic, huh."So it is okay to reach out, its okay to miss them, so just relax and know you aren't the only one who has done this! :)
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