Posted by 10derHeart on December 8, 2005, at 18:22:13
In reply to I do it all the time » muffled, posted by Dinah on December 8, 2005, at 17:40:24
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Me, too. Probably not all the time, either. But enough, still.
Used to *always* use the "hide ID" option on my cell so his system wouldn't identify who the heck was calling and leaving no messages at all hours of the day and night.
But recently (after our email debacle), I don't even care if he knows any more.
After all, I told him weeks ago that I do it. Just like I later told him (though I can hardly choke this out without a total meltdown) that just seeing his name in my email Inbox - without ever even opening/reading the actual message - used to calm me down and make me feel soooo good. He responded to both by saying it was "almost scary" to be that important to anyone, but that he was honored and took his responsibility for those strong emotions very seriously.
Now that he knows, at least I get to complain and tease him when he changes the outgoing message to something that I don't like the sound of, or is just too short.
My T. definitely has to take a lot of guff from me.
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