Posted by allisonross on December 8, 2005, at 5:18:15
In reply to Horrible session, posted by daisym on December 8, 2005, at 0:42:09
Dearest little (((Daisy))): I will come and take care of you. I will give you some milk and cookies (lemonade), hot chocolate? I will give you a safe place to be, and lots of attention and love, let you take naps..read you stories, tuck you in at night..and just....be
I think that is what we all want, eh? Someone to love, understand, empathize and CELEBRATE.....us...because no one ever did?
I understand about the abuse; lived it as a child and then in 31 years of marriage. Except for 3 years in the army I have lived like that.
I believe that until we can get it "all' out----all of the pain, we can never even begin to heal. How can we do this?
painful process...someone said: "If you are going through hell......keep going."
It's the only way to do it, and of course, the scariest thing you can ever do.
It's like the abuse is like a cancer inside, and until we can get the operation (talking about all of it), it will affect our whole lives, and destroy us.
How do we do it? Talking, writing, etc. That is the only way I know how.
Hugs and Love, Ally
poster:allisonross
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