Posted by fairywings on December 8, 2005, at 13:26:25
In reply to Horrible session, posted by daisym on December 8, 2005, at 0:42:09
(((daisy)))
I'm sorry you're having such a struggle. Is there a adult part of you inside who could care for, love, and soothe the younger part who wants so desperately to be loved, and is clammoring for attention? I found an adult male part of me who is so wonderfully nurturing, and he's been really good with those younger parts of me that I just can't deal with. He's also a good companion for me.I completely understand the neediness for your T. After all you didn't get nearly what you needed as a child, so now you want all of that attention for yourself, and then add to it that you have to be so strong at work and at home. You need and deserve attention. It would be so much more simple if our parents would just love us the first time around, so we didn't have to undo all the damage.
I hope you'll let yourself have what you need - the fun and the light heartedness will come at some point in time.
fw
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