Posted by Dinah on December 9, 2005, at 20:05:15
In reply to Re: Forced distance (long) » annierose, posted by LauraBeane on December 9, 2005, at 19:49:15
Don't be so sure he won't change. Although I understand not wanting to get your hopes up.
I talked to my sex therapist about her style, and while she wasn't willing to change it completely for me, she surprised me by being more than willing to change the pace and intensity of it. She was mainly glad that I had had the courage to speak to her about it. It was a very polite and non-confrontational discussion and I'm very glad we had it, even if I don't stay with her long term.
Of course, I tried the same thing with my biofeedback therapist a few years back and got a very different reaction. :(
But you never know. I'd have never guessed she would take the entire topic so well.
I am very lucky with my therapist. One of the things he does best is take feedback well.
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