Posted by Dinah on January 10, 2006, at 18:33:59
In reply to Talking about anger, posted by daisym on January 9, 2006, at 19:39:07
That's been a major part of our work. Letting me know it's ok for me to get angry with others, and others to be angry with me. That it won't mean that the relationship will end or deteriorate. That people can actually be angry and get over it.
I'm not sure if I've learned that lesson all that well yet. I still put my hands over my ears and whimper when he's angry. And I still hate to even admit to myself when I'm angry.
I guess it's a work in progress.
poster:Dinah
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