Posted by canadagirl on March 21, 2007, at 5:14:52
In reply to Re: a newbie in love))canadagirl, posted by gazo on March 20, 2007, at 16:56:28
Re getting fired, I really do understand as I was completely distracted too. I mean completely. What I tried to do, was only think about the situtation during certain times of the day. If I was at work, I would have to compartmentalize it and deal with it later. Didn't always work but it did sometimes, enough that I could get through it.
Also, you say you haven't left #1 yet, a suggestion - you might want to do everything you can to get those feelings out as much as possible without starting a new case or whatever since he is leaving. You might want to think of a strategy of what to say so that you can be honest, and reveal, yet contain, if you know what I mean. But if you still have some time left, you can at least use up some of those emotions in the session, with him, although it will be very hard. I think you will get a helpful response, from what you have written about him. I understand how hard it is, believe me. It's an awful time to go through.
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